Daily Motivation #26

We get caught up in the complexities of life that we often forget to see the beauty. If we become too focused on the pain and we forget to remember life is beautiful, that’s when we go to a bad place. I’m going to do my best to remember that life is amazing and that I am happy. I am so lucky to be where I am. I have a small family with my boyfriend and our dog. I know our little family will grow some day and I’m excited to be a part of it. I hope everyone is having an amazing day. Happy Friday!

Blogging is the best

I know that I’m not as consistent in my blogging as I should be. I have tons of posts on all three of my blogs. If you don’t see a new post from me on here, you might find one on my other blogs. I do try to post weekly though and that has been a struggle ever since my work has become more demanding. Every time I blog though, I feel a great sense of relief. It’s comforting to tell someone how I feel. And I don’t always have someone to tell these things to. I am so grateful for finding blogging when I did. I was going through a rough time in my life and my blogs kept me afloat. I think I’ve written about 300+ blog posts. I’m also working on my fourth blog. I’ve fallen in love with blogging. If none of my careers work out, I’m going to be a full time blogger.

I don’t always post, but when I do, it reminds me of how lucky I am. And I am so happy when I’m blogging.

Daily Motivation #25

I’m so sorry I’ve haven’t been blogging as much as I used to. My work has been consuming all of my time and I’ve been exhausted. I’m still so thankful for blogging and all of the bloggers in this community. I recently received such a nice comment on my blog and it reminds me of why I continue to blog. I hope everyone has been having a great year and I will continue to update this blog as much as I can.

Thank you for reading!

Daily Motivation #24

I’m beginning to learn the importance of having a good partner. A partner can help you see your flaws and they want you to be the best that you can be. I’m not a perfect person, but my partner has helped me grow so much and I don’t know where I would be without him. I’m beginning to learn how to stop thinking negatively. It’s one of my biggest issues I’m struggling with at the moment. I sometimes get consumed with negative thoughts and I don’t talk about other stuff. I really want to change. I know that he will help me, but I want to show myself that I can do it. I’m ready to make changes 👍

Daily Motivation #23

There are going to be obstacles in life, and don’t let them tear you down. Ignorance is bliss. And don’t ever let someone push you down to their level. Keep your head up high and stand tall. Life is amazing only if you make it amazing. If someone else is not happy with themselves, then let them be. Let them live with their own unhappiness. Stay strong 💪

What happens when you become lonely?

I’ve never actually been around someone that is chronically lonely 24/7 until a couple of years ago. I witnessed what happened to their life and the consequent events that followed for them. It was not pretty. In response, I saw it as my duty to make myself as less lonely as possible. I didn’t want to end up like that. And I saw what it did to that person.

You become overly attached to someone. If you have only one friend, you keep texting them and you become jealous when they hang out with other people. I remember acting like this in middle school. I ended up not having many friends after that. That person starts to distance themselves from you. And then you end up with no one.

Another thing that happens is that you start to become overly irritable. When someone hangs out with you, you complain constantly. Nothing makes you happy. And you’re always in the mood of hating other people because they have what you want. When you see other people happy, you become jealous. This jealous feeling eventually consumes your life.

The last thing that happens is depression. You fall into a state of depression that never ends. You end up staying at home not wanting to do anything. Taking care of yourself is out of the window. Every day of your life is miserable.

Loneliness is a mental state. No one is physically forcing you to feel this way. And I know that many people are dealing with loneliness. If you can get out of it, do so right away. Start a number of hobbies that take up your time. Go out and talk to people. Life is meant to be enjoyed. And the time you spend feeling tortured by yourself is time that is wasted.

Life is Great

I’m finding life to be amazing right now. I’m happy all the time and nothing is getting me down. I think I’ve finally overcome the thing that was making me depressed and my life has drastically changed for the better. If you’re ever in need of help and support, reach out here! I’m hoping everyone is having a great Halloween 🎃

Daily Motivation #22

I’ve been really trying to keep my mind clear of all negative thoughts and I’ve been struggling with doing this. I know I am going to be okay. I keep telling myself this. I believe there comes a time when you just have to be strong. Whenever these thoughts are there, I feel myself becoming weak.

Today has been a great day so far. I have a long day of teaching lessons. There are about six lessons I have to teach today. I have a two hour gap in between two of those lessons and I’m grateful for that. I’m going to go eat my second lunch and relax. I also hope to study a little bit for the lsat. Life has been good to me lately. And I have to tell myself that haters will always be there. My life is going to be alright.

No Privacy

I’m quickly learning that I have absolutely no privacy whatsoever. All of my moves are being watched and it’s quite annoying. I don’t understand how someone can be so obsessed with your business, but I have somebody that is watching me.

I’ve recently begun sneaking out of the house in order to get some privacy. And it’s been difficult. I’m still brainstorming on some ways to get some privacy. Any advice would be well appreciated!

Daily Motivation #21

I haven’t been posting for a little while on my other blogs because I’ve been busy. Work is keeping me always on the go. And it’s difficult to find time to blog. I’m writing this blog right now in between my next lesson times. Posting on this blog in particular is the best because I can write shorter posts and those take less time.

I’ve been thinking of blogging as a future career. I know it takes a lot of time and it’s not easy. I was going to discuss this with my boyfriend because we were talking about making an extra income. And I already have a monetized blog right now. I’m hoping for more financial security in the future. We’re young, so I’m not too worried about it at this moment. Well, my next lesson is in three minutes. I gotta go!

Daily Motivation #20

I’m having a pretty good day so far. I am thankful that I have myself to rely on. And that I can take care of myself. I’m hoping to continue being happy and to help my loved ones.

Update

Hi, I just wanted to come back on here and update everyone. I’ve been doing well. I had a tough day of work that made me realize I needed to take a break, so I’ve been resting. I’ve been reading other people’s blog posts. And it has been great to get some time to rest my mind. I highly recommend doing this if you are feeling exhausted also. I hope everyone is having a great Sunday! I’m also looking to see if I can watch more Netflix tonight! I’m excited for that.

Daily Motivation #19

I just woke up and the first thing I wanted to do was to blog. I had a talk with my boyfriend last night about a plan B if my law career never happens. And I said that I would become a writer. I would start out with freelance writing and build my career from there. I’m glad I’m getting the practice from blogging and I’m excited that my blogs are slowly growing for the future.

I’m going to keep this post short. I have to go study for the lsat. I’ll talk to everyone again soon!

Daily Motivation #18

It’s funny to see people continue to show their true colors despite everyone around them continually forgiving them and making excuses for them. And those around them keep getting hurt by those people. It’s not great to witness, but it does seem pretty ironic when the narcissist never seems to change. Why would they change? They think they’re perfect. I think it’s amusing. And it shows me that I am right. Distancing myself and talking about this proves that my intuition was correct. I’m glad.

Yesterday was a pretty busy day for work. And I have been pretty occupied with work lately. I’m grateful for the happiness I have in myself. It’s like a light that I carry with me everywhere. And no one can take it from me. I’ve learned that there are those who are jealous of my light, but it doesn’t matter. I just focus on myself. And I continually keep making myself happy. I replenish my light with more light every day. I’ve found that I’m becoming better at making myself happy. I don’t rely on others for happiness. And this has made my life change drastically.

Finding Peace

Sometimes you need to protect yourself from all things that can harm you. I’ve found that not everyone is going to like you and that’s okay. They will continue to dislike you for the rest of their lives. And protecting yourself is important. Your sanity and well being has to be your top priority.

Avoidance is probably the best solution. Avoiding all contact is for the best. Live your life the best you can. And know that your life is better.

We are all striving for peace. We want peace from negative emotions and negative people. That’s what I am looking for too. I hope we can all find it in our lives.

Daily Motivation #17

Yesterday wasn’t such a good day for my mental health. I had negative thoughts that were not good. And that took up a lot of my time. I’m trying to fight against it and be stronger. It’s hard. And I’m glad I got to spend time with my family yesterday. I have to remember that my life is better than others. I have a good future and I have many friends. My life is good. I am better and my health is amazing. I have to remember this, and I will try to whenever those thoughts appear. Overall, I know I will conquer this.

Overcoming the Worst Year of My Life

A lot of you might wonder why my ideals are so harsh and why I talk about sad topics so often; it’s because I had the worst year of my life last year and I feel like I’m still living in that year. No matter how many times I tell myself that it’ll be okay and no matter how much I tell myself that I’m better, it only works to an extent. And I’ve been bottling all of these emotions for a long time. That’s why I write so often about these feelings. It’s my way of describing what happened and hopefully helping someone else that might be in the same situation. I was emotionally abused for a long time. I had someone talking behind my back and creating drama. If I lived my life happily, they were quick to tear it down. If I happened to be smiling, they were quick to point out one of my flaws. It didn’t matter what I did, nothing could possibly stop them from constantly trying to ruin my life. And they still are. I keep a good distance from them now, but I always feel that they’re there watching and talking about me.

I know that I am stupid for enduring this for so long. I think that this is God’s test to see how strong I can overcome this hardship. I’ve never been mentally strong. My sister’s friend often told me to toughen up and I never did. It wasn’t until now, that I lived with someone very negative, that I finally understood what he meant. I need to be stronger. And I will admit that I have been trying to be strong for a long time. It’s so difficult. My friends and family said they wouldn’t be able to handle as much as I did. I’m not sure why I do it. I know that there are places where I can go and I know that my life is going to be great. I know these things. Those things keep me going. I’m okay. And I think I’m very strong for going through what I did.

I hope that blogging can be a source of strength for me. I don’t really have anyone to tell about my feelings. I feel like I’ve exhausted all of my friends and family about this. And I don’t want to bother them anymore. To those who have had to endure something like this, you should know that there is a light. And the light is you. Only you can make yourself happy. Don’t let anyone take the light away from you. If they are mean to you or they try to yell at you, just ignore them. Keep your head up and stay strong. We’re all on this journey together. And I know we’ll be okay.

Why Loneliness is Bad

I’ve seen people that were lonely and they are absolutely miserable. They don’t have a will to live. Their living conditions are equally as horrible. It’s not good to be lonely. There are more cons than pros.

If you’re lonely, you feel like no one cares about you. That might not be true. It might be that everybody has their own lives and they’re too busy to pay attention to you. It’s not about you. And I don’t want to make anybody feel bad. I just want to show you the truth about loneliness. Hopefully, you’ll be able to avoid being lonely from my advice.

I’ve found that being lonely is a selfish act. You’re only thinking about yourself. It’s about me, me, and me. If you start to think about other people, you’ll find yourself less lonely. In fact, you might find that you could treat other people better. And you’ll find that you might think of yourself too often. The person that I know that complains that they’re lonely all the time never thinks of other people. Their entire world is made up of themselves. And in return, no one cares about them.

I’m not saying that I don’t pity those who are lonely. I’m truly saying that you don’t have to be lonely. You really don’t. Every day, you have a choice whether or not it’s going to be a good day. I wouldn’t spend so much time on negative emotions. Instead, I would pour all of that energy into productivity. When you spend so much time thinking about being lonely, you end up wasting a lot of time. Try to rely on yourself because you’re not really as alone as you think you are. You still have yourself, and if you’re your own biggest fan, then you really don’t need anybody else. I would focus on myself and give myself everything I’ve ever wanted. I don’t need anybody to make me happy.

Life is too short to stay unhappy. Do you want to stay in the same place while everyone around you is moving on? It’s not okay. And no excuse in the world can make it okay for you to make others unhappy because you’re unhappy. Remember, if loneliness is the only thing you feel and it consumes your every day life, then no one will want to be around you. People want to around other happy people.

I know that there are tons of self-help books about this, but maybe they’re not realistic enough. I really don’t want people to stay in their depression forever. It’s not okay. And you have to be strong in life or you’ll end up going nowhere.

Daily Motivation #16

Angry people will always get the short end of the stick. They don’t know how to handle their emotions and they are consumed easily with negative emotions. People like this will never get anywhere in life. They waste all of their energy. And in my opinion, it’s really in my interest because I don’t get angry like that. If you know someone that gets angry or is jealous, you’ll see how much time they spend in their lives doing this. I don’t want to be mean, but it’s kind of hilarious. Don’t be like them! Be better and you’ll become better. And you won’t waste your time like they do.

Daily Motivation #15

I’ve been absent from the blogging sphere for a quick minute and I could feel my blogs becoming stagnant. Blogging all the time is not always something I can do. And I have to accept the fact that I’m just not at that level of blogging yet. Even though it may seem like i’m not blogging or on Wordpress, I am. I’ve been reading other peoples’ blogs. And that has been fun too.

Another interesting topic of discussion is that I’ve learned that someone is very obsessed with all of my daily actions. I’m a carefree person that doesn’t pay any attention to other people. I just do my own thing. Imagine a free bird that does whatever it wants. That’s me. I’ve never had anyone watch all of my actions before, but hey, if that’s what they want to do… go for it. Watch me live my best life while their’s is horrible 🙂

Daily Motivation #14

Yesterday was a tough day. It didn’t go quite well towards the end of the day, but not every day is perfect right? I had a student that decided to quit piano and that caught me off guard. I don’t enjoy teaching this student as much as I enjoy teaching other students. I can tell he has trouble focusing and I know younger boys usually aren’t as interested in the piano. Against all odds, he stuck with the piano for a decent amount of time. And I was very proud of him. His mother told him yesterday that I am very busy and I might not have time in the future to teach him. That’s not true exactly, but I appreciate the compliment! And he responded by saying he doesn’t want to quit piano anymore. I was happy to hear that, but my entire confidence and mood for the day was thrown off already. After the lesson, he thanked me and told me he had a very nice lesson. That made me very happy.

I don’t usually worry about losing students because I try my best to value the ones I already have. And yesterday’s ordeal made me worry about losing students. I feel like I should offer more incentives or spice up my piano lessons. I rely on this for my sole income right now. My blog is making money, but just not enough in its beginning stage. I’m going to brainstorm on how to make my piano lessons better.

I also felt discouraged about blogging. I’m definitely a stats checker and I check almost every couple of hours. I know I shouldn’t be checking unless it’s once a month, but I couldn’t stop myself from doing it. By checking every day, I’ve managed to discourage myself because the progress is minimal. And of course it’s going to be minimal if it’s day to day. Blogging shouldn’t be about instant gratification. It’s a jog, not a sprint. I have now vowed to myself that I won’t check. I’m going to enjoy blogging and only check my notifications. And hopefully the stress that I was feeling will disappear.

I have lots of homework to do this morning and I didn’t get much sleep last night. Wednesday’s are usually not my best days. I find myself scrambling in the morning to do my homework and practice the piano. And I usually don’t have time to practice the piano before my own piano lesson. I’m thinking that instead of going back to sleep, I should start early on my homework and practice. I’m feeling burnt out and I also think getting some rest will be better. I’m not entirely sure, but we’ll see on what I decide.

Daily Motivation #13

Last night, my best friend told me that her parent did another bad thing that was worse than what her parent did last time. And that she will not be able to spend today with me to celebrate her birthday. I was disappointed, but also very angry with the parent. If you are a parent, you need to protect your child and not hurt them. In my inner circle, I see so many parents that are rude to their children and they treat them like slaves. Each day is dedicated to giving their child tasks to do for them. If their child happens to be going out with their friends, the parent will ask them to go to the grocery store, the bank, and the mall to pick up some items for the parent. Why did these people even have children? And the kicker? These children are 25-29 years old and the parents still act like this! I have friends that have parents that don’t let them date. And my friend’s ages are 26 and 27.

I’ve seen some parents that have a huge gambling addiction. They aren’t able to control where they put their money and how much money to put there. I don’t want to judge too much, but that seems like a problem that their children shouldn’t have to deal with. When you’re much older, you should have your life together. Don’t have a child and bring them into your world of problems. Don’t take their money and give it to the casino. Don’t do these things because YOU SHOULD BE THE PARENT!

I could rant much more about this topic. All my friends have problems with their parents. I see that their parents don’t have their life together and they’re incredibly unhappy individuals. And they exude all of their negative energy upon their children. I wish I could help my friends. It’s not fair to them that they have to deal with this. Life isn’t fair and it’s just… plain embarrassing to see these “adults” act like this.

Update on Yesterday

I had an amazing day. My boyfriend took me out to go feed the fishes. It’s a place where you can feed the catfish popcorn and bread! And then we went to a Hawaiian festival. It wasn’t that much fun there and we were disappointed. I didn’t like that we had to throw away all of our drinks that we brought in. We had a sprite and a water. And we finished the sprite but they made us throw away the water. The food and drinks inside the festival were not good. After that, we decided to go to Canes to eat. We love going to Canes because we can share a caniac combo together. It was a really good day overall 🙂 and my worries about it were gone when I saw that the person who wanted to control it was mad that they couldn’t control it. Haha that made my day that they were not able to manipulate the day and they were upset. It’s my mom’s birthday today, so we’re probably going out to celebrate with her. I’m also going to teach some lessons today. I’m very happy! Happy 5 year anniversary to my boyfriend and I!

Daily Motivation #12

The day hasn’t started yet and I’m nervous. I’m nervous about the possibility of having to adjust my plans against my own wants. There are things that I want to do today and I don’t want to do other things. What if I don’t get to do them? I would be so disappointed. I have to focus on my own happiness. And even though I say that I’m strong, I feel like it’s still out of my control.

I really hope today is a good day. I’m celebrating my anniversary with my boyfriend. And we have lots of plans to spend the day together. I’m excited and maybe my expectations for today are too high. This post isn’t about him. I don’t want anyone to get the wrong idea. We are doing great. It’s about something else. It’s okay, I will be strong. I’m glad I have my blog to share this with. Thanks for listening, I really appreciate it. I know this post is very rambly, but I’m thankful for my blog to support me during this time.

Daily Motivation #11

I have so many plans for myself in the future and I know I talk about that a lot, but I’m very motivated. I am so happy today because I get to spend the night and tomorrow with my boyfriend. We work different days, so it’s difficult to get the same days off. And I’m excited. I love it when we get to spend time together. Life goes by so fast and I like sharing my time with him when I can.

On another note, my body is so bloated and I’m not happy about that. I’m not going to let that stop me from living my life though. You have to decide: are you going to spend the day being sad or are you going to choose to be happy? I’m going to choose happiness. I deserve to be happy.

Another update for me is that I successfully launched my main blog. I own the domain now. I’m not sure if I mentioned it on this blog. You can check it out at Pocketfuloflearning. I’m working on redesigning it soon. And I have many new ideas for blog posts. Let’s all start blogging. I can’t wait ☀️

Daily Motivation #10

Do you know that scene in Gilmore Girls where Rory tells her mother that she’s pregnant and that she’s going to write a memoir of their life together? In the ending, she had nothing. She didn’t make anything from being a Yale graduate and she didn’t end up living her life’s dream of becoming a reporter. And furthermore, she left the love of her life. So, what did she have left in the end? Just a baby and herself. I couldn’t believe that she was in her thirties and she never went anywhere. Everyone thought she was going to be brilliant. She was supposed to shine above the rest. And she didn’t.

Is my life going to be like that? Am I going to have anything when I turn 30? Is the love of my life going to be with me or am I going to be alone? I fear that people don’t end up where they hope to be. And life just passes us by.

What if I still have the chance to change the future? I can still make something of myself. I’m not in my thirties, so I can count myself lucky on that. And I still have time to carve out a future for myself.

Today’s motivation is this: don’t let life pass you by. Think about what you’re doing now to help yourself and do it. I’m not saying Rory’s future wasn’t great, but it wasn’t what she wanted. Stand by yourself and work hard now. Don’t wait before it’s too late.

Daily Motivation #9

I’m writing these daily motivation reminders to hopefully help someone that faces the same troubles I have. I know how hard it is to be alone with your feelings and have no one to talk to about them. Don’t worry, we are all in the same boat. We’re just trying our best to stay happy.

I need a reminder to handle my emotions better. I’m not the best with that, I’ll admit it. I can’t hide my frustration at times. And I end up saying or doing something stupid. Let’s all try to exercise our emotional control. Let go of bad emotions and let in our good ones. I hope everyone is having a great Thursday. We can do it!

Daily Motivation #8

Live your best life. And do whatever you want regardless if people don’t accept it. Negative people despise those that are happy. They want to bring them down because they want everyone to be miserable. Don’t let them get to you. Happiness is a choice and as long as you choose happiness every day, you’ll develop an armor made of steel.

Don’t let them tear you down. Choose to be happy!

Daily Motivation #7

Going for your dreams is so worth it. I am glad that I finally decided to pursue what I’ve been wanting for awhile. My life has been changed by blogging. I can’t say that enough. If you want something, go for it. Don’t wait. You won’t regret it. I don’t even know why I waited this long to go for my dreams.

Please check out my official blog Pocketfuloflearning.org 😊🙏

I’m so proud of my new accomplishment!

Don’t ever let anyone tell you to give up

My blogging story started last year. I was blogging all the time and I absolutely loved it. I ended up publishing 100 blog posts on my pocketfuloflearning blog and I also created a second blog called cleverly begun. At this time, I really wanted to take the next step and buy an official domain. I saw my sister had purchased a website for her law firm and she knew somebody that designed websites. I thought the opportunity couldn’t be more than perfect; her friend would help me design my blog and take it to the next level. I approached her friend asking her all about web designing. It seemed like she didn’t care about my dream. She told me that my blog will never have enough views to make any money worthwhile and I should only enjoy it as a hobby. I didn’t agree because I know that many people make blogging into their full time job. She told me that my blog will never amount to anything and to stop when it’s early.

I was so disappointed and pretty offended. She was always the one that told me nothing is easy and you have to work hard to get the things you want. Shortly after the encounter, I stopped blogging. I had given up entirely because of what she said. And the fear of her words led me to never take the next step for my blog. I learned shortly after that she had started her own blog. Oh? Interesting. And she was posting on it once in awhile. I thought she said blogging was not worth it?

A couple months passed and I met with an old friend. He told me that it was such a shame that I didn’t continue blogging. And if I had kept going with the momentum I was at, I would have reached my goals. He knows more about websites and seo. On the contrary, she knew nothing about websites. I thought about what he said for awhile. And I decided to give it a try again. I started posting on my blogs and I didn’t want to give it too much of my time because I was afraid of failing. I even refused to purchase a domain.

To my utter surprise, I gained wayyy more views, likes, and follows than I did before. I gained so much attention that I started this blog. And now I have three blogs. I began to interact with the wordpress community and I fell back in love with blogging. It felt good to write about how I feel and to be able to share my thoughts with somebody. I never felt more excited about blogging. And my dreams of being a blogger started to look real. I purchased my domain finally, for pocketfuloflearning. It’s Pocketfuloflearning.org and I have no regrets. Not even an ounce of regret or buyer’s remorse. I feel strong and empowered.

Don’t ever let someone tell you to give up on your dreams. I shouldn’t have let her tear me down and belittle what I wanted. I wasted time that I will never get back. If you want something, pursue it. Who cares what other people think? You are strong, and you will succeed.

Daily Motivation #6

Today, I need courage. I love blogging and I think the next step is to purchase the domain for my main blog. I’m afraid, however. I think my biggest fear is failure that blogging doesn’t work out for me or if I end up quitting later on. That’s why it’s so easy for me to continue using the free plan. And I don’t have a huge stake to continue blogging if I keep it on the free plan.

There are disadvantages though. I will never move forward if I stay in the same place. Should I do it? Is this a sign that I need to take the next step? I hope I find the courage today to do this.

My mood today is horrible

I can’t describe how I feel right now. I just know I feel terrible. I feel unhappy with how my studying for the lsat is going. I feel terrible because I’m letting someone else ruin every day for me. I feel terrible physically because I didn’t get my coffee yet. Terrible, terrible, and terrible.

I know I’m supposed to be strong woman like I told myself I am, but it’s hard. It’s what I strive to be and I feel like I’m becoming progressively terrible at it.

Yes, my mood right now is very pessimistic. I apologize. I just needed to vent my feelings and hopefully try for a better day today.

Inspired by a YouTuber

I’ve been watching a youtuber that left her office job to pursue thru hiking. And that is very inspiring. She talked about how she saved money and she changed her life to have a passive income job. I want to have passive income. It’s not like I’m holding out from working in hopes of getting passive income. I have a job and I’ve been working for five years since I turned 20. I did the whole college thing and I now have student loans. Anyways, she was able to make enough income to hike and I envy her drive. She shows me that you have to work very hard to get to where you want to be.

I still watch her videos and I’m amazed still. I know it’s not easy to be a content creator. She obviously has to put in a lot of work for her videos. I seriously wonder if I can become just like her. Do I have the drive necessary to be at the same level as her? I will try.

Day One Set Goals

Hi, I’m trying the blogging branding and growth course and I’m pretty excited to set my three goals. I have two other blogs also here and here. If you want to read more of my blogs, I linked them on this blog! Here are my goals for this blog:

1. Reach 100 followers by the end of this year

2. Reach more than 50 blog posts by the end of this year

3. Be able to motivate and encourage someone to keep going and be strong

Daily Motivation #5

I wanted to start off with a quote. My biggest pet peeve is to hear people complain that they are not where they want to be. Well, why don’t you do something about it? I know someone that complains every day about their situation and they do nothing to change their circumstances. And many years later, this person is still at the same place. Eventually, people will become tired of hearing it. Yeah, yeah… you’ve said this already. And those that are working hard every day, they won’t have time to hear the complaints. That’s me.
Man, this picture epitomizes what I see when I think of success. It takes a lot of work every day to grind it out. You go to work each day and you go because you have to make money. And there are things that you may want: a car, new tv, or designer clothes. Those all cost money. Know what you are working for each day. If blogging is your passion, dive in! Get started and charge with full force. Give it your all and you’ll see your dreams slowly starting to form.
This picture shows how I feel like every day. I know I have to post a blog, go to work, take care of my boyfriend and our puppy, clean the house, pay bills, and everything else. We work so hard every day. It’s the grind. And I know that we’ll never get to where we want to be if we don’t work hard for it. We wake up in the morning and sleep late at night. Commitment to this is absolutely necessary. Don’t take it lightly.

Follow your own way

Just because someone doesn’t want to eat heathy or do something that you do, it doesn’t mean that you have to stop living your life. Let them do whatever they want and follow your own path. Just do what you gotta do. Sometimes you have to do your own thing and that is awesome. 👏

Daily Motivation #4

Everyone tells you to be strong or to get over it. But what they don’t know is that it’s really hard to do that. It doesn’t happen overnight. And not many people are prepared to realize that fact.

Someone out there needs to hear this: it is okay to strive for happiness, but fall many times along the way. Give yourself a break, and don’t be too hard on yourself when you aren’t strong. It is something we are constantly working towards. No one is perfect.

Daily Motivation #3

Hard work doesn’t mean that you can just sit back and relax sometimes. You’ll have to do things that you don’t want to do. It’s all about pushing past the tiredness and completing the work that needs to be done.

I was a badass today

Something happened today that really pushed me to a dark place, but I was able to regain my strength afterwards. I will admit that I broke down at first, but my sister helped me stand back up. I’m usually strong and today’s events caught me off guard in a bad way.

Afterwards, I bought my own stuff so no one can touch my stuff and I took back my stuff. I don’t care if they were happy about it or not, those are MY things and I needed them. It’s my right to take it back. Hah. I was a badass 💪

Daily Motivation #2

If someone is bothering you, just ignore them. It may not be easy. They may be someone you have to see every day. They may be nosy and want to know everything about you even though they don’t like you.

It doesn’t matter!

You are better than them. Keep your chin up!

Feeling jealousy

I think I’m becoming spiteful. I don’t like this one person I live with and I don’t want him to spend time with my MY dog at all. She is MY dog after all. And I can’t stand the thought that they are spending time together when I’m not home 😞 I know this person is miserable already and they have nothing, but I don’t want anything to do with them. I’m so bitter and I have to stop it. My dog likes me the best anyways and I’m her mom. His health is declining quickly… ugh I just want everything in my life to be farrrrr away from him.

Yesterday was a bad day for my dealing with this person. I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he started to talking to him while I was on the phone. Who does that???!! That’s so disrespectful. No one like this person and he has no friends and only one family member left in his life. I hope that my little teacup yorkie is happy but I want to protect her. He’s a toxic person. Karma has caught up with him HARD. Thanks for letting me vent, I needed to. I will be on the path to happiness and I need to realize that this person doesn’t matter.

My first post

Continuing my journey for complete happiness and escape from negativity. People try to control you and they’re obsessed with everything you do. They do this to make themselves feel better. Not today. That ends now.